Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Chapter Three : Do I really want what I need....???

Time to think rather than laugh.....

Teenage wants :

@ Teenage or after teenage all wants are about choosing our life long partner and then surviving with them...

Some believe in arranged marriage but some believe in choosing their loved ones...

However Marriage has its meaning only if its blessed by our parents.. Even if the choice is ours, its our responsibility to convince our parents... (Just parents are sufficient and not any others.) At the same time parents should also see what will keep their children happy and not unnecessarily think about what the society would tell...

But today "Marriage is just a business"... Just yesterday night when i had a casual talk with one of my friend, he quoted this out and I just liked it... Though truth is bitter @ times we have to accept it..

Now love marriages are increasing drastically and parents have also started supporting these just for their children's happiness as I said before..

But many others say and also believe that Divorce cases have increased because of these love marriages... Is it true...??

Anyway I wouldn't support it nor would I say its not true.... Confusing..?? Yeah I am here for that only.. Sometimes confusions give u better solutions....

Whatever it would be either a love or arranged marriage, but the reason for divorce cases increasing is the so called topic of our story "WANTS".... Though people have what they need they always desire towards what they want and make their lives miserable themselves..

Very simple why do we hate arranged marriage..?? For some they may not be satisfied with their parents choice, some feel thrill will be missed.. Some others may have some other thought.

But today love marriages have become even worse..

What does a girl expect from a boyfriend...??
He should have got a higher degree than her,
He should earn at least a coin (could be a 1 Rupee coin or gold coin or even platinum..:D ) more than her,
He should be handsome ,
He should have a bike,
He should spend whenever she wants,
And best of all he should listen to whatever she says....... and many more... Believe me frenz wants are countless..

And boys... Tough time yar.... Arranged marriages are better.. U will at least get bajji sojji and ur father in law also will treat u like GOD but if its his daughters selection, even after passing thru all the above tests ur father in law will look @ u like a reversed GOD.. Yeah DOG...

Next alert girls ... Guys are not that easy..
But the good thing is they expect less... Yeah everyone wants to have a wife like Aish or any other actress...
They don't mind about what the girl has done(studied for that case) or abt what the girl is doing (about if she is working or something else) not even abt what the girl is going to do(say whom she is going to marry)...
All they want is a beautiful girl, without knowing that beauty never lasts long...

So what would u call all these..??

WANTS what else...

But what is that u really need...
A guy who has
courage (to stand out and convince all around him and marry u @ any circumstance),
determination(to keep u content life long no matter even if recession comes or not) and
care for u (who looks @ u the same way even if u are 60 as he liked u in ur 20) @ any point of ur life..

A girl who
likes u inspite of the defects in u,
supports u even if the whole world is against u,
loves u as much as her parents (it doesn't mean she has to betray them.. ),
encourages u even when u are on streets loosing out everything u have,
accepts ur family as her's...


So what are all these called...?? I would call it "NEED" which everyone ignores and is just fascinated towards the temporary happiness provider "WANT"....

When we get what we want, the happiness is unlimited but the duration is short..
But when we get what we need, we may not feel much of happiness like flying in the sky and all but it lasts long...

Hope I have confused u all enough and @ the same time made my thoughts clear on what is wants and what is need...


Opinions are like watches so anybody s watch that shows a different time compared to mine are free to share ur thoughts with me... :)

Thanks for ur patience.. Hope those who hate pictures and fun will like this post....

P.S: I have just shared about what happens in most cases.. True love and people who understand their needs have a peaceful life so this post is not meant for them... :)


Wait for the next start...

23 comments:

  1. @jan: again philosophies of life ah:-):-)but why these sudden changes in these few months..but guys doesn't see only beauty..how about character and intelligence? are these not important to both guys and girls?

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  2. @Vid : Its to good to understand philosophies of life na.. No changes.. I am always the same.. Even now I encourage love marriages but that satisfies needs and not wants..

    In love @ first sight where does character and intelligence come into picture.. They come to u only if u look good. Eyes makes the 1st selection.

    Character they do see. I agree.. But intelligence is something out of the box.. Do u conduct interview b4 falling in love..? Never.. :)

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    @this post: No comments

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  4. @Moto : http://srimathumitha.blogspot.com/ thanks for the info.. Its really good as u said..

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  5. In which category do u fall in this post..Don try to answer by being too good with ur answer...

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  6. @Moto : Good question.. I would like to just have my needs satisfied and as such I have no wants for now and ever..

    Does it answer ur question.?

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  7. hey intelligence is not just bookish knowledge.lots more to it..may be tamil cinema directors should view ur blog..so that they would refrain themselves from taking love at first sight movies:-P:-P

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  8. @Vidhu : Hey by intelligence i too didnt mean bookish knowledge.. In which interview do they ask questions from ur book..
    Or like u can tell me from ur experience how u find out if a person is intelligent...??

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  9. comments ku indha pink color-a vitta vera colore kedaikalaya..
    kanna valikuthu..

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  10. Unnalkulla ivalo thirama olingittu irukkua...?:P

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  11. @Ezhil : Sorry for the technical error.. I tried to change some other colour and something else got affected.. Hope its fine now..

    @Raj : I dont know if u are saying it sarcastically... But still being an optimist I will take it in a positive sense.. Thanks boss. Hope u liked it.

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  12. Hi,
    Nice . Practice makes man perfect. after long mokkais, u made a good article.
    Girls(Not all) still expect more more more more more.

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  13. @Kathick : Girls(Not all) still expect more more more more more. Very true... :)

    Practice makes man perfect : Wat r u trying to convey thru this.. I didnt get... :P

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  14. @jan: I hav a doubt..if the girl in case earns more than the guy, sometimes it might lead to ego problems..so wat's wrong in expecting the groom should earn more than the girl?

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  15. @ All: sabbaaa..! Mothathla comment adikraen apdingra paerla mandaya kaaya vachteenga.!

    @ janani: therinja vishayathukku yaen ivlavu build-up??

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  16. @Vidya : Fine in that case is it not enough if the guy earns as much as u.. But girls(not all) expect double than wat the earn.. Money should not be the deciding factor in marriages that was wat i meant to say.

    @Jithu : Its true that its a known fact.. But the problem is we forget abt it.. So just thought of reminding.. :)

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  17. @janani: Fine fine. Thanks for ur last comment ;-) As u have said in ur last sentence of ur post, this post is not for me ;-)

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  18. Hi janani,
    Very nice story.. (Little bit mokkia too) :)
    Intha story vachu oru film edukalame..! movie Superb hit than!!

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  19. @Nantha : Thanks for ur +ve and -ve feedback... I will make sure that next time u dont say "Little bit mokkai" instead to say "Bayangaramana mokkai"... Fine >>> :P

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  20. @janani: the sequel was really nice...it unfolded many of my questions in life..keep postin sumthin unusual...

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  21. @Vinu : Thnks and good i have answered ur questions.. Will continue the same.. :)

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  22. I think some intercontinental hyper active disastrous in hibiscus rosa sinensis due to the CWG.. :P :)

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  23. @Rajesh : Boss yena solla vareenga neenga..?? Only one thing i can understand is that you are a biology student... :P

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