Chapter Three : Do I really want what I need....???

Time to think rather than laugh.....

Teenage wants :

@ Teenage or after teenage all wants are about choosing our life long partner and then surviving with them...

Some believe in arranged marriage but some believe in choosing their loved ones...

However Marriage has its meaning only if its blessed by our parents.. Even if the choice is ours, its our responsibility to convince our parents... (Just parents are sufficient and not any others.) At the same time parents should also see what will keep their children happy and not unnecessarily think about what the society would tell...

But today "Marriage is just a business"... Just yesterday night when i had a casual talk with one of my friend, he quoted this out and I just liked it... Though truth is bitter @ times we have to accept it..

Now love marriages are increasing drastically and parents have also started supporting these just for their children's happiness as I said before..

But many others say and also believe that Divorce cases have increased because of these love marriages... Is it true...??

Anyway I wouldn't support it nor would I say its not true.... Confusing..?? Yeah I am here for that only.. Sometimes confusions give u better solutions....

Whatever it would be either a love or arranged marriage, but the reason for divorce cases increasing is the so called topic of our story "WANTS".... Though people have what they need they always desire towards what they want and make their lives miserable themselves..

Very simple why do we hate arranged marriage..?? For some they may not be satisfied with their parents choice, some feel thrill will be missed.. Some others may have some other thought.

But today love marriages have become even worse..

What does a girl expect from a boyfriend...??

He should have got a higher degree than her,

He should earn at least a coin (could be a 1 Rupee coin or gold coin or even platinum..:D ) more than her,

He should be handsome ,

He should have a bike,

He should spend whenever she wants,

And best of all he should listen to whatever she says....... and many more... Believe me frenz wants are countless..

And boys... Tough time yar.... Arranged marriages are better.. U will at least get bajji sojji and ur father in law also will treat u like GOD but if its his daughters selection, even after passing thru all the above tests ur father in law will look @ u like a reversed GOD.. Yeah DOG...

Next alert girls ... Guys are not that easy..

But the good thing is they expect less... Yeah everyone wants to have a wife like Aish or any other actress...

They don't mind about what the girl has done(studied for that case) or abt what the girl is doing (about if she is working or something else) not even abt what the girl is going to do(say whom she is going to marry)...

All they want is a beautiful girl, without knowing that beauty never lasts long...

So what would u call all these..??

WANTS what else...

But what is that u really need...

A guy who has

courage (to stand out and convince all around him and marry u @ any circumstance),

determination(to keep u content life long no matter even if recession comes or not) and

care for u (who looks @ u the same way even if u are 60 as he liked u in ur 20) @ any point of ur life..

A girl who

likes u inspite of the defects in u,

supports u even if the whole world is against u,

loves u as much as her parents (it doesn't mean she has to betray them.. ),

encourages u even when u are on streets loosing out everything u have,

accepts ur family as her's...

So what are all these called...?? I would call it "NEED" which everyone ignores and is just fascinated towards the temporary happiness provider "WANT"....

When we get what we want, the happiness is unlimited but the duration is short..

But when we get what we need, we may not feel much of happiness like flying in the sky and all but it lasts long...

Hope I have confused u all enough and @ the same time made my thoughts clear on what is wants and what is need...

Opinions are like watches so anybody s watch that shows a different time compared to mine are free to share ur thoughts with me... :)

Thanks for ur patience.. Hope those who hate pictures and fun will like this post....

P.S: I have just shared about what happens in most cases.. True love and people who understand their needs have a peaceful life so this post is not meant for them... :)

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