If u and me cant then who else can..???

These children live on the same earth on what we live.. But what is the reason for all these… ??

When there are children carrying loads of books, there are some carrying loads of pain (laboured)… The hand that has to hold pen and pencil here hold spanner and hammer…

So whom can we blame for all these…?? This question will remain unanswered for ages…

Ooooooops!!! Sorry google images did not give me 2010 statistics… So kindly adjust…

The cycle above is clear though confusing… :P

If we have to resolve problems from where do we have to start with…
Should we help people come out of poverty ??
Should we start with stopping child labour ??
Or should the first step be rendering education ??

Whatever the first step is, the other issues will be resolved…

Let us stop blaming people who are responsible, let us stop making research on what are the reasons… As all these are not going to bring any change.

Instead let us stretch out our arms to the needy… May the little contribution we make turn out darkness in someone else life…

Let every child live the way it has to…

Let every child have a peaceful meal…

Let every child be taken care of…

Any of the below may help a child live his/her dream…

http://www.worldvision.in/

http://www.agaram.in/

http://www.planindia.org/

http://www.volunteeringinindia.org/Sponsor-a-Child.htm

http://www.indiasponsorachild.com/

http://www.educateachildproject.org/


“If I am not for myself, who will be for me?
If I am not for others, what am I?
And if not now, when?”
- Rabbi Hillel

Chapter Three : Do I really want what I need....???

Time to think rather than laugh.....

Teenage wants :

@ Teenage or after teenage all wants are about choosing our life long partner and then surviving with them...

Some believe in arranged marriage but some believe in choosing their loved ones...

However Marriage has its meaning only if its blessed by our parents.. Even if the choice is ours, its our responsibility to convince our parents... (Just parents are sufficient and not any others.) At the same time parents should also see what will keep their children happy and not unnecessarily think about what the society would tell...

But today "Marriage is just a business"... Just yesterday night when i had a casual talk with one of my friend, he quoted this out and I just liked it... Though truth is bitter @ times we have to accept it..

Now love marriages are increasing drastically and parents have also started supporting these just for their children's happiness as I said before..

But many others say and also believe that Divorce cases have increased because of these love marriages... Is it true...??

Anyway I wouldn't support it nor would I say its not true.... Confusing..?? Yeah I am here for that only.. Sometimes confusions give u better solutions....

Whatever it would be either a love or arranged marriage, but the reason for divorce cases increasing is the so called topic of our story "WANTS".... Though people have what they need they always desire towards what they want and make their lives miserable themselves..

Very simple why do we hate arranged marriage..?? For some they may not be satisfied with their parents choice, some feel thrill will be missed.. Some others may have some other thought.

But today love marriages have become even worse..

What does a girl expect from a boyfriend...??

He should have got a higher degree than her,

He should earn at least a coin (could be a 1 Rupee coin or gold coin or even platinum..:D ) more than her,

He should be handsome ,

He should have a bike,

He should spend whenever she wants,

And best of all he should listen to whatever she says....... and many more... Believe me frenz wants are countless..

And boys... Tough time yar.... Arranged marriages are better.. U will at least get bajji sojji and ur father in law also will treat u like GOD but if its his daughters selection, even after passing thru all the above tests ur father in law will look @ u like a reversed GOD.. Yeah DOG...

Next alert girls ... Guys are not that easy..

But the good thing is they expect less... Yeah everyone wants to have a wife like Aish or any other actress...

They don't mind about what the girl has done(studied for that case) or abt what the girl is doing (about if she is working or something else) not even abt what the girl is going to do(say whom she is going to marry)...

All they want is a beautiful girl, without knowing that beauty never lasts long...

So what would u call all these..??

WANTS what else...

But what is that u really need...

A guy who has

courage (to stand out and convince all around him and marry u @ any circumstance),

determination(to keep u content life long no matter even if recession comes or not) and

care for u (who looks @ u the same way even if u are 60 as he liked u in ur 20) @ any point of ur life..

A girl who

likes u inspite of the defects in u,

supports u even if the whole world is against u,

loves u as much as her parents (it doesn't mean she has to betray them.. ),

encourages u even when u are on streets loosing out everything u have,

accepts ur family as her's...

So what are all these called...?? I would call it "NEED" which everyone ignores and is just fascinated towards the temporary happiness provider "WANT"....

When we get what we want, the happiness is unlimited but the duration is short..

But when we get what we need, we may not feel much of happiness like flying in the sky and all but it lasts long...

Hope I have confused u all enough and @ the same time made my thoughts clear on what is wants and what is need...

Opinions are like watches so anybody s watch that shows a different time compared to mine are free to share ur thoughts with me... :)

Thanks for ur patience.. Hope those who hate pictures and fun will like this post....

P.S: I have just shared about what happens in most cases.. True love and people who understand their needs have a peaceful life so this post is not meant for them... :)

Wait for the next start...

Chapter Two : Do I really want what I need....???

Before i start with my post I would like to thank all for ur comments.. The best part is each comment is as long as a post.. So this shows ur enthusiasm... Thanks to all...

Now to start with few other wants...

Some technocrats are like this.... They directly want to go to office skipping school and college....

Few others want to do all what their dad does..... :)

Now coming to the topic... Until now we have seen all types of wants of kids... I have still not come to wants of our ages... :P

But is that all what is required for their age..?? Fun apart.. Time to think now.. All that they need for this age is Nestle cerelac and Woodwards Gripe Water..

But will they be happy with just what they need for them... No they want to try things all above their age.. Every one wants everything above what they need... Thats the main cause for all problems..

Few are still more advanced in their thoughts.. They think ahead of their future and stay cautious....

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KG children want to jump to high school, high school students want to join college, College students ____________ I need not tell.. U all know what they will want and what they don't want...

More about wants of teenage in the next chapter....

Chapter One : Do I really want what I need....???

Hiyyyaaaaa I have come to confuse u, convince u and share with u my copyrighted thoughts... Rights reserved..

So what shall we fight tday abt...??

Do I really want what I need.. ?? Confusing..? Then proceed reading...

Not confusing.. ?? U are clever enough to understand..?? Then better start writing or adding something new to ur own blog... Experts not eligible to proceed...

Ok what do kids want???

Sometimes Just a special one near them and fingers in their mouth and a world of dream may be what they want.. what if i grow up..? How will life be..?. May be what they dream..

For some sincere people like __________ I didn't mean anybody.. newspaper & books may be what they want to be always with them..

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For few music may be what they want... Who knows what he is listening to..?.. Could even be a PETTA RAP (prabhudeva hit from Kadhalan film)... :)

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For few others like us ... yummy food may solve the thirst of all wants.

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Few want girl frenz.. Few want cute girl frenz...

Few want handsome boy frenz... Few want tolerable ones....

Few wanna fly, few wanna jump, few wanna crawl...

Few more in the next chapter.....

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Stay tuneeeeeeeeeeeed.....

Better late than never

With thousands of thoughts across my mind and millions of words waiting to jump out of my mouth,
I thought "Its better late than never" to favour my thoughts get commented by my dear friends...


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